email: Re: Hello from Gainesville, FL

Dear Joe,


I wouldn't want to give answers to either of you. The question is, what do you want? If you love her bones, you have come to that, good for you! Then you can probably find the way to do something about it. I don't know what T. wants either.

I have observed that there may be no answer to 'what is love,', but many questions. We may come in touch with what is NOT love; perhaps we must in order to learn about what is love. Certainly we humans need to come in touch with Love and live from that. For what could be of more importance in this barren, loveless world we have created, living only from pleasure and fear. And is this Love, the love of God, the love of a man, a woman, of pleasure, or any of all the things we humans love to love and hate.? In any case, we certainly may learn what is NOT love. And when the 'in loveness', the sexual passion fades and it does, what will get us through just living life everyday, always moving beyond with the other, or will we have to abandon them? Will we come in touch with the simple affection for life, the other and all life, that makes this possible? Or are we only interested in our personal love, satisfaction, fulfillment, through another, and call that love? Is love getting something from another?

I do not know where either you or T. stand in the issue of intentions as regards love in your lives, together or apart. I do not know just how serious either of you is about life, the whole picture, or just wanting personal satisfaction. I do know that we get what we ask for, and so, we should seek the highest. I do know that our intentions need to coincide for relationship to flower.

This letter may be of little comfort to you, but maybe these questions are important, or maybe you all feel they don't concern you. I would love to see you and T. happy and creative and improving this world through your loves and relationships. Good Luck!

Warmest regards,
D. (T.'s mom)